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MY CONCEPTS, MY LABELS ,MY PERSPECTIVES
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THE LABELS, THE CONCEPTS.

My Label : RINNA

I fell to SAMSARA on 25 Sep 93

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Schooling in Republic Poly, Pharmaceutical Science :)
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Thursday, June 23, 2011
Something just struck me.

Yup was thinking of what to Blog.

Was at the bus trip to TP today , woah, long time didn't sit on the bus. Of course favourite routine : sit and do nothing. Easy said but difficult to do. REALLY.

I NEVER DID ONCE realised PRESENT MOMENT.

hmmm yup was thinking about something. LOVE is the word that struck me. How many people knows about what is LOVE.

Many friends of mine was stuck in it. Even i admit i am blinded by it. but what it is?
Some people say, Love is like a covalent bond, strong attractive forces but there are weak inter molecular forces in between. Somehow, i do see the analogy in term of attachment and suffering.

How do I explain it.

hmm. ok, the suffering or "happiness" comes when you are really really loving this person. but the PROCESS where by eg : the person don't love you back etc is the thing that made you suffer and unhappy. Attachment. Crave and desire enhance the process even more. But how do you not suffer ?? hmm either you realised impermanent and let it go hehe.

i only got an answer for myself : "LOVE EVERYONE EQUALLY".

Difficult but ya.

Trying to educate my boy about this. Love can be selfish and can be self less, depend on your choice.

I know some friends out there are having troubles in their relationship, i do have it too. I struggled to find a balance but sometimes, balance isn't the way to deal with things. couple have to be understanding and really be mindful about their priority.

No wonder Love is Blind came about, but how about love at First sight? hmm.

Having a confusing argument huh.

Yup, I confess I really ignore my boyfriend feelings at times, but what is important is that he understand my priority in my life and what is important to me. Of course in return I had to be understanding to him too. We do really talk about some issues and we had argument. But everything is really all about Give and Take. Understanding and Mindfulness. Love is more than feeling , emotion and chemistry.

I wouldn't say i am a good lover seriously. But what I can say is : the only balance you want to get from Love is Loving everyone equally. That the best balance to me i guess.

love.
ARE SIMPLY IMPERMANENT
CHANGING from MOMENTS TO MOMENTS.